Being liked is a desire we all have, but we’re not all very good at showing it. Figuring out whether your co-workers or even your crush likes you can be a hard task at times. Luckily, there are some not-so-obvious signs that show if somebody is quite fond of you. For example, if they play with a random thing while they talk to you, they might have a crush on you.


Every lady knows the qualities that she desires in a man. Most times they may sincerely like a man and pray that he asks for a relationship or for their hand in marriage but because women are secretive, they find it hard to tell a man how they truly feel. They may pretend like they do not really love him or they may give him some signals which he may not understand. Here are certain things ladies do when they admire a man secretly.




1) She watches you closely.

She shows a lot of involvement in your life, even more than your best friend. She wants to know everything about you – the kind of rapport you have with your parents, what you do when you're alone, how many girls you've dated, the kind of friends you have had in school, what your real passion in life is, your favorite movies, what you like for breakfast – you name it, and she wants to know it. It seems you are the only one in the environment with her. She takes note of everything you say.



2) She gets super awkward in front of you. 

Her hands get fidgety, she starts playing with her hair, or her phone, and starts blushing when you look at her while talking. You notice that she is always blushing and smiling whenever she's with you. 



3)  She tries to be close to you. 

She tries to find ways to spend some alone time with you, even when you're in a group. She will drag you along for a long walk with the excuse of going to the ATM when her wallet really is loaded with cash. And, it's only you, she chooses every time to accompany her!

She does this by calling and offering to help you at every opportunity. You notice that she makes sure that she maximizes any opportunity she can get to talk to you. She can even develop an interest in your hobbies and ask you questions that can make you bond.



4) She tells you intimate things about herself.

The more she likes you, the more personal details they’ll tell you about them. They may even share their flaws or setbacks but in a slightly casual way. They’ll also try to keep the conversation going by asking you things about yourself.



5) She teases You a lot.

This is a sign you can spot during a conversation. If they make fun of you, but in a light-hearted way, they might have a crush on you because this is a style of flirting. If you share their feelings, go ahead. Just be mindful and remember that teasing is fun and exciting, but if they make fun of something you’re insecure about, then it has a negative implication.



6) She's always concerned about you.

Everything about you concerns her more than how a friend usually is. Even if you have something as small as a common cold, she will literally call you thrice a day just to see if you've taken your medication and that you're fine.



7) She shows signs of jealously.

She shows signs of jealously if you talk to other girls. She gets mad at you for giving another girl attention. And to hide her real feelings she always plays the you-don't-have-time-for-your-friends-anymore card. When she sees other women close to you. You notice a change in her mood when such happens.



8) They copy your behavior.

Did you put your elbows on the table and notice that your crush followed suit and did the same movement just one minute later? Then you might start flirting soon. It’s been scientifically proven that people copy the people they like, whether it be through gestures, certain posture, words, or even preferences in food or music.



9) They specify that they’re single.

If they “randomly” insert in your conversation that they’re currently not dating anybody, you should pay attention to it. They very well may have a reason behind saying that. So if you want to make a move, this would probably be your time to get in there. They want to show their availability as a sign of attraction toward you.


10) She gets disappointed if she finds out you are already in a relationship.

She will be very disappointed when you tell her you are in a relationship or she finds out herself. you see her trying to distance herself from you and she starts doing things she rarely does.